Appearances

Appearances can be deceiving, yes. They can also be vitally important.

With this in mind, the need for control of one's own image becomes apparent. Don't just accept the roles society foists upon you; craft your own self-image.

After you've done that, be sure it never goes stale. Constantly reinvent yourself.

RIP Prince.

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