Perception

If perception is reality, then isn't it paramount to control perception to the best of one's ability?

Instead of lying to yourself and saying you don't care what other people think, why not devote time and energy to shaping how others see you?

It starts with how you see yourself. By consciously taking charge of the way you see yourself, primarily through your internal dialogue, you can radically change the perception of You.

An objective reality is imaginary. Perception is real. Control the latter and you become the master of your destiny.